In his book The Grand Essentials, Ben Patterson writes, “I have a theory about old age . . .
I believe that when life has whittled us down, when joints have failed and skin has wrinkled and capillaries have clogged and hardened, what is left of us will be what we were all along, in our essence.
I believe that when life has whittled us down, when joints have failed and skin has wrinkled and capillaries have clogged and hardened, what is left of us will be what we were all along, in our essence.
“Exhibit ‘A’ [for my family] is a distant uncle... All his life he did nothing but find new ways to get rich ... He spent his [old age] very comfortably, drooling and babbling constantly about the money he had made . . . When life whittled him down to his essence, all there
was left was raw greed. This is what he had cultivated in a thousand little ways over a lifetime.
“Exhibit ‘B’ is my wife’s grandmother ...
When she died in her mid–eighties, she had already been senile for several years. What did this lady talk about? The best example I can think of was when we asked her to pray before dinner. She would reach out and hold the hands of those sitting beside her, a broad, beatific smile would spread across her face, her dim eyes would fill with tears as she looked up to heaven, and her chin would quiver as she poured out her love to Jesus. That was [Grandma] Edna in a nutshell. She loved Jesus and she loved people. She couldn’t remember our names, but she couldn’t keep her hands from patting us lovingly whenever we got near her.
“When life whittled her down to her essence, all there was left was love: love for God and love for people.”
The question is, “What will we be babbling about when all that’s left of us is the essence of a lifetime? What will we be talking about then?”
In light of Ben Patterson’s story, we can say that the things that matter the most to us right now will probably show up when senility has robbed us of the ability to obfuscate . . . when we can’t conceal who we really are, way down deep inside.
So this is inventory day. What will we find when we look inside?
*The views expressed in this blog are in no way intended to represent the views of Child Evangelism Fellowship©.They are exclusively the expressed views of Curtis Alexander.
was left was raw greed. This is what he had cultivated in a thousand little ways over a lifetime.
“Exhibit ‘B’ is my wife’s grandmother ...
When she died in her mid–eighties, she had already been senile for several years. What did this lady talk about? The best example I can think of was when we asked her to pray before dinner. She would reach out and hold the hands of those sitting beside her, a broad, beatific smile would spread across her face, her dim eyes would fill with tears as she looked up to heaven, and her chin would quiver as she poured out her love to Jesus. That was [Grandma] Edna in a nutshell. She loved Jesus and she loved people. She couldn’t remember our names, but she couldn’t keep her hands from patting us lovingly whenever we got near her.
“When life whittled her down to her essence, all there was left was love: love for God and love for people.”
The question is, “What will we be babbling about when all that’s left of us is the essence of a lifetime? What will we be talking about then?”
In light of Ben Patterson’s story, we can say that the things that matter the most to us right now will probably show up when senility has robbed us of the ability to obfuscate . . . when we can’t conceal who we really are, way down deep inside.
So this is inventory day. What will we find when we look inside?
*The views expressed in this blog are in no way intended to represent the views of Child Evangelism Fellowship©.They are exclusively the expressed views of Curtis Alexander.